Guys only: would you rather have a bad (ghetto) girl or shy proper girl?

like i get confused when you guys say you like the bad girl type yet when i see guys get married they marry a good girl (well to me) i was wondering would you rather have a hood girl that can shoot guns fight and is all like sexy and a party goer or a shy girl who wears the dresses is quite and sweet but when you get her alone you realize shes full of personality please answer and state your race i want to see what different races think.