Scared to drive again, car crash,@ 16?

Sorry to hear about this Alex, but tragedy plus time equals comedy! The best advice I can give you is to forgive yourself. Let your Dad know how sorry you are that it happened, and let it go. If you are still nervous about driving, find out if there are any go-cart tracks near your town. They are invaluable in teaching the simple dynamics of driving in a way that is both fun and controllable. You will get past this, and like I said earlier, you will laugh about this someday long from now(especially if you see that episode of Spongebob in like ten years). Try to remember, growing up is one of the hardest things we do, even when we aren't aware of how hard it is.